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How to get out of the comfort zone

                             I've started getting out of the comfort zone recently. And I had some help. I'm the shy type, so I needed that boost. There are people out there who are ment to be the in the front and there are people who are ment to be in the back. But it's nice to just switch from time to time. I began  getting out of my comfort zone thanks to the projects I've been involved because they made me interact with people, and that helped me gain some hope in today's human kind. I was terrified because of past experience and you might be too, but not all people are mean. I had to learn this lesson by going out with my class mates who turned out to be so different when they were not in the four walls of school. This is part of human psychology. We have more than one face. We have three faces: one we show when we're at work, one we show when we're with friends and family and one we show when we're ...

Why kids lie

       So I was wondering for a while why it is a lot easier to lie as you get older.And I'm not thinking 20-30, I'm thinking 5-10, maybe earlier or later. So I thought of the closest kid I know who lies and why.Me. Now you're going to think, ''Alexandra you're 18'', but I didn't start lying recently, but way earlier. When I was about 12-13, I started lying about my grades because, to my family, that seamed like the most important thing in the world, adding to that, I was compared to the smather kids like "Why can they have straight 10 and you can't.Well, for a thing I hated a lot of subjects and I just couldn't shove all that crap in my head, so I was pleased I passed.But I didn't pass with 5, I passed with 7, maybe 8, but the fact that it wasn't a 10 was a huge crime for my parents.You can't even imagine how they reacted to my entering Highschool exams.Again, they weren't bad but not 10. Back to the subject.Later in...

STUDY, STUDY &STUDY

                                                 So...Exam season is around the corner...More precisely on Monday...Yay... To tell you the truth, I'm freaking out and I'm so worried that something might come up and I'm screwed for life. I hate the fact that I wasn't educated to cope with a bad situation like that(I mean screwing up).All I know is to blame myself if I screw up.Which is not a good mentality.It's a very negative and distructive mentality to me.How can you tell your child if he fails something(no mather how important) they are that it's their fault.#parentinggoals But I don't blame the parents, but a few parenting books might help.Which is why I thought a nonparent could give  100 better advice on educating a child rather than a parent.I feel a better educater in parenting than my own parents.Like hello!? Ok, so I've already started to go into...

A message to young girls

                                            When I was a young girl, I dreamed of becoming a princess and rule a kingdom. Girls nowadays inherit "daddy's" empire with a flick of the eye. When I was young, I pretended lollipops were cigarettes for fun. Girls nowadays smoke like the were born with this capacity. When I was young, I would choose to play outside and run a whole park with my friends. Girls nowadays chat on Facebook, Twitter and other Social Media platforms and "check-in" to seem cool.And they hunt likes for their selfies. When I was young, girls and boys didn't want to kiss each other's cheek. Girls nowadays jump from a relationship to another. Whe I was young, I would get things when I deserved them. Girls nowadays get everything. I'm not trying to denigrate girls in this post or make somebody angry.NOT ALL THE GIRLS ARE THE SAME.I'm just noticing how generations...