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Like incoming problems. I feel like here in France there are always problems hiding around the corner, so I need to always be ready to start fixing them (lots of problems caused by the excessive bureaucracy) . I know I wouldn't have had the opportunity to do it back home to lean to not hide under a blanket or my dad and start fixing shit.<br /><br />3. I've learned to do chores<br />I'm going to be honest, back home I did basically nothing. Other than vacuum my room, I would do nothing. Now, not only do I vacuum my room, I wash dishes (I still avoid doing it cause I hate it), do groceries, dust, clean the bathroom etc. These things taught me some well needed discipline that one should learn. I wish my parents could read English cause they screwed up teaching us how to have a balance. It's not all about staying in school Dad :p<br /><br />4. I learned that family and friends are irreplaceable and hard to live without<br />Having my family and friends 1500 km away really is tough since I unsuccessfully managed to make a group of friends here. Granted, I made some decent friendships but I didn't make 50 Erasmus friends from all over the world that I will keep in touch in the future. False advertisement much?<br />Also, I and my family learned to appreciate each other. We still get on each other's nerves but we saw what's it like not having each other. Now, I will confess, going back from a 'one person living space' to 5 sounds pretty scary since I am now used to not share a bathroom... Ye...<br />But I miss my assh**** (I say this lovingly)<br /><br />5. I learned how to stay on track with bills and budget<br />Money doesn't grow in trees and if you have a rent to pay and limited money, you better prioritise it.<br /><br />6. I learned more about the French<br />Honestly, other than the young generation, I like French people. Always polite, mostly happy and generally helpful. I noticed this difference between Romanians and French. Romanians hate working, they always seem grumpy, they hate their general conditions of work and will do nothing to at least make their life better. The most obvious difference is in the cashiers. I go grocery shopping up to 3 times a week (spend around 6 euros every time, don't freak out) and whereas French cashiers are always smiling, greeting you and overall interact, Romanian cashiers make it a little obvious they don't like their jobs, they would rather be somewhere else and I get it. Their salaries are not the best but we have to make an effort to at least see the positive in things.<br /><br />7. I've learned that nothing comes for free<br />I'm not talking money here, I'm talking about education and grades.<br />Whereas in Romania it was quite easy to stay in the top students, here nobody is giving you pity points. You want to pass, you have to work. They don't give attendance points, the don't give 'you tried' points, what you give is what you get. This made wake up and raise my studying game cause I want to pass and I want to go back home with a decent scholastic situation. So this was definitely a wake up call and a realisation that we Romanian students have it pretty easy. Now, I can't speak about all universities but as for mine, we do have it easy. First year was child's play compared to what I'm doing here. And this took me some time and emotional distress to get back up and willing to finish this God damn programm cause it is not for weak, lazy people. (btw I have around 3 more months to go)<br /><br />SO yeah, here's another serious post. Guess the conclusion is that I've changed and I'm overall grateful. God bless, enjoy life, take risks,<br /><br />Later<br /><br />Alexandra <br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-89190447840012901402017-11-17T10:38:00.000+02:002017-11-17T10:38:12.788+02:00My exchange experience in Lille Part 1<img alt="Imagini pentru travel" height="324" src="http://www.foodtravelexperts.com/international/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/banner-home3.jpg" width="640" /><br /><br />So, as of today, I have been almost 4 months into my exchange program.<br />I am currently studying in Lille, a nice cit 20 km away from the Belgian border, north of France.<br />The city is lovely with it's influences and all, but I'll say one thing. It looks boring to me. Maybe because I've been travelling too much. The overall city architecture did not blow me away. Not to mention that when I arrived in September, people were drinking and pissing on the streets. At least my dad loved it.<br />For me, it's been a tough time. I'm away from my family&friends. What makes it tougher is that the other people my age are quite...uninterested in life in general. If never heard such quiet people. They do talk, but sometimes I can barely hear them. Most of the times, they are glued to their phones. Which basically means there's not much interaction happening. So my routine became such a routine that I no longer feel motivated. If it weren't for all the school trips, I would have been severely depressed by now. While all the adults here seem to have some flavor in their life, the 20 year old are dead.<br />Other than that, I have been quite able to take care o myself, do all the things that I wouldn't usually do(like laundry or groceries).<br />Classes are soo different here I am still having culture shock. A class here last about an hour and they happen one after the other, no 10 minute recess in between. It's been a daily race o get to class. Also, the teachers seem to like to talk to a muted class. Students rarely engage in conversation, probably because that's how classes happens here. Teachers talk, students nod and go to their next class. It's so different than being asked each and every one of us to talk like back home.<br />Also, I nicknamed Subway my weekend restaurant cause that's where I have lunch every weekend. Most of the week days, I eat at the school cafeteria. They offer decent meals for 3,25 (you get a pat on the back for this France.)<br /><br />If you have questions, feel free to ask them :)<br /><br /><br />See you guys in the next one :)<br /><br /><br />Alexandra<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com1Villeneuve-d'Ascq, France50.6232523 3.144265099999984250.542684799999996 2.9829035999999842 50.7038198 3.3056265999999841tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-64843663008630167932017-05-14T20:51:00.001+03:002017-05-14T20:51:13.364+03:00Your feelings can affect your perspective<img alt="Imagini pentru bucharest pictures" height="457" src="http://www.immaf.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/bucharest-03.jpg" width="640" /><br /><br /><br />Dear reader,<br />Have you ever felt very happy that other person's sadness didn't affect you?Or very sad that you felt that nothing could ever make you happy again?<br />Let me tell you the story of my first time in Bucharest.<br />It was a Friday, sometime in April. I just arrived in the train station at around 9am. After a sleepless night, I was feeling pretty weak. Yet I wanted to sort out the stuff that I came here for. After that thing was not sorted out, everything came down on me, no matter how much I tried to convince myself it was ok. I started visiting the sites that I planned on seeing since I had a full day to travel around. After an encounter with a rude person, I felt quite sad and wronged. But then again, I went on with my day.After I boarded the train back home that evening, I felt relieved, yet sad that I knew another 9hour train ride was awaiting for me to get back home. Again, I didn't sleep and the following morning, I arrived back in Timisoara feeling happy that it was over. I described the city as being ok, yet I confirmed to myself what everybody said: Bucharest inhabitants were rude, the city was ugly; I never want to see it again.<br /><br />Around two weeks later, I am landing on the Henri Coanda Airport in Bucharest. I felt so happy coming back here, travelling in style on a plane that took us here in 50 minutes (screaming internally of joy). Thsi time I was on a short vacantion with my father. I met the nicest people ever in my dad's friends. They fed us, hosted us and showed us some amasing places. Also, I helped make a tiramisu which was way better than a bakery made one. I met nice people all over Bucharest: a couple that are more than willing to help and cook with and for you, a waiter who served us nice cakes and the best orange juice in Romania(reminded me of the one I had in Spain), a joking museum ticket seller, a willing to aid us underground/subway helper, a dancing snake, proof that narwalls exist etc( I know the last ones are not humans but yolo right). I left Bucharest with a peaceful soul because now I knew I can always come back and not feel so lonely or scared.<br /><br />The conclusion to the story/stories. <br />The time when things didn't go my way altered my view of the city overall. It wasn't its fault at all. We are the ones who are in control of what and how we see things. Even how we react to them. When things go wrong, everything seems like clouds are above us. The same goes the other way round. Positive sees positive, negative sees negative. So if any time you feel like something/ everything goes wrong, think back of the good times, and remember not to judge the book by the weather( haha smart word play ) :D<br />Always find a different perspective to look at something. And try to give second chances. That second chance, you're giving it to yourself ;)<br /><br />Thanks for reading,<br /><br />Take care.<br /><br /><br />AlexandraAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-12809113236755521682017-01-29T21:51:00.003+02:002017-01-29T21:51:54.275+02:00You would look great... <img alt="Imagini pentru positivity" src="http://www.projecthappyhearts.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/labimg_870_600_1_good-vibes-only.jpg" /><br />This will sound strange, but I was peeing, and then a thing that happened to me back in highschool sort of clicked and maybe triggered me to write this post.<br />I've talked in a couple of posts how people have always commented on my appearence , and this episode was quite shocking for my 15, maybe 16 year old self.<br />It happened on the corridor of my highschool back in 9th or 10th grade, and I was chatting with some classmates (girls of course because the great majority of my classmates were girls) and, I don't remember how the discussion was oppened, but one girl said this to me:<br />"If you would do your eyebrows, put on make-up and straighten your hair, you would look great".<br />My old version kind of was left perplexed and just smilled and ended the subject there, but my 19th year old present self feels this way. I hate it so much when people try to change the way I look. They think that a better version of myself would please people around me. But have they ever asked themselves If I was pleased with my looks? Or maybe ask me more important stuff like, how's your health? How's your moral? Are you feeling sad? Did you eat your meals?<br />I've never understood why people would do that. Especially girls. Because, let's be honest, I think one or two boys commented on my looks but that was it. Why do girls feel like saying these things?Do they feel better about themselves? Do they think they're helping?I don't feel helped. When a 15-16 year old girl hears stuff from like that from other girls, it hurts. It's like saying "change your looks because people don't like you and your current one/ones." So what if people don't like me because of my looks? So what if I dress like a hobo or like a heiress? I don't think it makes me be more human.<br />So what if I have a unibrow, big bushy eyebrows, a make-up free face? Who allows you to spread venom to young girls who are insecure? Why do you, being yourself insecure, spread more insecurity. Just shut up!<br />
As I get older, I've lived enough to know how to deal with this kind of crap. And I couldn't be more proud to be an older sister to teach my younger sibling what's good for her and how to deal with bitches. That's right. Bitches. If you don't have nice things to say, you're a bitch. Go to the mall and spend as much money as you want on make-up to cover up your imaginary flaws. I'll be sitting here, drinking my hot chocolate and watching Scooby Doo episode because I like it. And I couldn't be more proud :).<br /><br /><br />Spread positivity because that's what you want to come back to you :)<br /><br /><br />Good luck in your new year :)<br /><br /><br />AlexandraAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-37438967324754263532016-12-02T13:18:00.000+02:002016-12-02T13:18:02.533+02:00Careful what you buy online <img alt="Imagini pentru online shopping" src="http://cdn1.listovative.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/online-shopping.jpg" height="341" width="400" /><br />
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So, in todays post, I will relate to you my latest experience with online shopping.<br />
I'm a big bibliophile , so I love me some books. So I when I saw a sponsored add on Facebook for an online book shop which had an offer, I went for it and placed an order. But what was a clear red flag was the biggest amount of money I've spent in my life on delivery. So being conscious that I was on a tight budget, I ordered just one book and a tote( the tote was very cheap and to be honest, very cute so that was what pulled me in placing this order.). Of course I chose the economic version of delivery which was 2 to 4 weeks. When it finaly came, the book was a pocket edition and had a rip on the back cover and some pages were turned. Basically, the book was not in it's best shape. The tote was better though. Judging by the amount of money I spent, I could have done my research. Truth be told, it was more expensive on my usual site but I've never got a book in a bad condition from them.<br />
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-Don't buy something only if they're is a limited edition cute tote or sock or something. Stick with what you were buying in the beginning. If that cute tote was the reason you went on that site in the first place, then do your homework, check other people's comments or check on other sites for better offers.<br />
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-If you decide to buy from that site, first read the description of the product. See if has the format or size, or just google a picture for it to see how they usually sell it. Most of the time, pictures have a link attached to it so that's how you can have an idea on what you are buying.<br />
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-Really be sure that you need that product. Don't make a hole in your buget if your not sure you want. I was superficial and placed this order because of an almost free tote with a kitty on it. That earned me a scratched book. And 50 lei flew like this.<br />
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-Document yourself if you're a first timer. There are many bibliophiles out there that can give you advice on where to find the best deals. And also they can warm you on where not to shop.<br />
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At the end of the day, I have a new book and a tote and a lesson learned well.<br />
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Hope you found this useful (or at least amusing).<br />
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Have a nice day <3<br />
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Alexandra :)Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-60018348714703669942016-11-18T20:48:00.001+02:002016-11-18T20:53:44.523+02:00Sticking to better priorities <img alt="Imagine quote, priority, and busy" src="http://data.whicdn.com/images/266853591/large.jpg" height="400" width="285" /><br />
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Guess who's in Colege? :D<br />
So today I want to talk about how to do the important stuff before anything else.<br />
Procrastination is something that can affect anyone and not just students, I myself find it difficult to do important stuff right now and I'm thinking what could I do to finish my priorities first.<br />
The first thing that comes into my mind is thinking how can not doing that or those things first will affect my life. Will I have a bad presentation if I do it last minute, will I run late if I leave in the last 5 minutes? If the answer is yes then I'll have a bad presentation and I'll be late and I might be kicked out of class. Consequences can leave a mark on you and the more, the worst you'll feel.<br />
Things like those might seem easy sometimes to fix, but there will be a time in your life where you don't know which to start because you're running out of time. Stress can also put a strain on your work if you are pressured by time like me. So try and schedule everything beforehand and you'll see a big difference.<br />
Let's picture a scenario where you have one day to get a project done and study for a test. What do you do? Panick ,not give a fuck and go to sleep or do best that you can?<br />
Avoinding a worst case scenario can actually save your butt.<br />
Being an adult isn't a matter of age, it's a matter of thinking. Of course there will be days when you'll want to watch a season of Asia's next top model and not finish your presentation because you have enough time during weekends. That's when thinking should step in and say" No , you won't have a good presentation if you don't start working". But maybe that's not something good to say. Try more like this : "Okay, first half an hour of work, then half an hour of watching TV ".<br />
Perspective and automotivating yourself can make a difference in a better time management.<br />
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I hope you'll find this interesting or motivational :)<br />
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I wish you all a good day.<br />
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Alexandra <3Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-31192816470146661612016-08-20T22:19:00.000+03:002016-08-20T22:19:08.431+03:00At some point, I was afraid of going to school <img alt="Imagine sad, young, and grunge" src="http://data.whicdn.com/images/255399244/large.jpg" /> <br />
So, in today's post we are going to explore a weird fear of mine, which is or was going to school.<br />
Growing up, I was always pressured by my parents to study and be the best at everything. Being young and vulnerable, I would listen to their demands of me studying. I wasn't the best, which made my parents a little frustrated, which had a negative impact on myself. I would hate going to school. If it wasn't for that handful of friends, I would have been a lonely kid. Later in life, I made the choice of switching schools and choosing another profile with other things to study. Things have gotten a lot better. But still, the pressure was there, both encouraged by my parents and teachers. I would come home and study for the next day's subjects, no mather which one. Even in Highschool I had subjects I disliked, even hated. But I kept studying just to please my parents and teachers. Maybe even subconciously I was pleasing myself because that was all I knew. Having good grades elevated me in the eyes of many people. They haven't elevated me in mine, but still it was something.<br />
At some point, I hated going to school. I didn't want to take that quiz in Biology or Maths because I didn't want to study. Not didn't have the time( which in some cases was what happened) but didn't want to. I was too tired from a recent quiz or a recent event, so I just didn't want to bother going. And other classmates who dichted that quiz totally made me frustrated and stressed and left me feeling like life was unfair. I was demonstrated later the effects of them dithcing. They were either punished with taking the test again and alone or just beeing graded somehow. I was a little happy that at least I wasn't being miserable alone. But the ease of my classmates also infuriated me because they could have straight eights and I was expected at least a nine. And I wasn't aloud to have less than that at exam subjects. This made me realise how focused we are on small things like grades. My physics teacher said something really smart after catching me cheat on a test. In life, there are things that will bring me down far worse than grades. So what you would have gotten a 4 today? Someday your loved ones could die. Isn't that worse.<br />After crying and calming, I took in her words which were filled with wisdom. I will remember to tell this to my kids when I'll have them.<br />
Another suprise and good example was when a friend of mine was straight 4 in some subjects and would barely pass at exam subjects. In the end, he had straight 8 in the exams and entered colledge without problems. Everybody underestimated him. But in the end, he had the last word. He wasn't stressed until senior year in highschool. And he passed in grades in the exam a lot of good students. I wish I was like him at this point. Carefree in Hichschool while kicking ass when it was the right time. He wasn't expected to succed. While I was. Can you imagine my pressure?<br /><br />That's all I have for you guys today. Please leave my feedback somehow. And don't forget to life in the present!<br /><br /><br />Much love :)<br /><br /><br />AlexandraAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0Timișoara, România45.7488716 21.20867929999997245.571563600000005 20.885955799999973 45.9261796 21.53140279999997tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-33761484945273863642016-07-16T21:00:00.000+03:002016-07-16T21:00:24.214+03:00How to get out of the comfort zone <img height="400" src="http://www.businesshorsepower.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/lifebeginssmall.jpg" width="400" /><br />
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I've started getting out of the comfort zone recently. And I had some help. I'm the shy type, so I needed that boost. There are people out there who are ment to be the in the front and there are people who are ment to be in the back. But it's nice to just switch from time to time.<br />
I began getting out of my comfort zone thanks to the projects I've been involved because they made me interact with people, and that helped me gain some hope in today's human kind. I was terrified because of past experience and you might be too, but not all people are mean. I had to learn this lesson by going out with my class mates who turned out to be so different when they were not in the four walls of school. This is part of human psychology. We have more than one face. We have three faces: one we show when we're at work, one we show when we're with friends and family and one we show when we're alone. Of course others have developed throughout time like the face you give when your with your crush or your teacher or your cousins etc. Those things are determined by the human brain. The best example are singers who have to put a show without truly showing themselves. They have that stage set attitude that brings you in. But they really have to get out of the comfort zone in order to perform for so many people. That's a challenge! And that's why not everybody can perform on stage. But getting out of the comfort zone can mean going out with your friends to a new coffee shop or a new concert, maybe even a paintball fight or a lazer tagg arena. Get together and challenge your limits. You don't need to always be alone when your challenging yourself. Friends are a huge confidence booster :)<br /><br />Hope that helped you.<br /><br />All my love :*<br /><br /><br />AlexandraAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0Timișoara, România45.7488716 21.20867929999997245.571563600000005 20.885955799999973 45.9261796 21.53140279999997tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-19060592122636941172016-07-09T20:23:00.000+03:002016-07-09T20:23:19.853+03:00Why kids lie <img src="http://www.slate.com/content/dam/slate/articles/double_x/the_kids/2014/05/140515_KIDS_Lying.png.CROP.original-original.png" /><br />
So I was wondering for a while why it is a lot easier to lie as you get older.And I'm not thinking 20-30, I'm thinking 5-10, maybe earlier or later.<br />
So I thought of the closest kid I know who lies and why.Me.<br />Now you're going to think, ''Alexandra you're 18'', but I didn't start lying recently, but way earlier.<br />
When I was about 12-13, I started lying about my grades because, to my family, that seamed like the most important thing in the world, adding to that, I was compared to the smather kids like "Why can they have straight 10 and you can't.Well, for a thing I hated a lot of subjects and I just couldn't shove all that crap in my head, so I was pleased I passed.But I didn't pass with 5, I passed with 7, maybe 8, but the fact that it wasn't a 10 was a huge crime for my parents.You can't even imagine how they reacted to my entering Highschool exams.Again, they weren't bad but not 10.<br />
Back to the subject.Later in Highschool I think I gave up lying about my grades cause I didn't care anymore.And I had higher results than in Middle School.But the stress was just >.<<br />
I asume I started lying even earlier like when I was lied for stealing the cookie from the cookie jar :))<br />
The expectations that my parents had made me lie.The last cookie made me lie.Kidding.<br />
I used to lie about a lot of things to get attention.I didn't have much attention from my family and, after losing most of my friends because puberty(God I hate you), I started making up a life I didn't have.I would lie about trips, or that I went there, did that.Basically anything to impress.I gave up on that too cause I didn't care.I was and still think I'm in the same point.I don't care if I'm alone, with no friends or family.As long as I have an internet connection and lots of books on my kindle, I will survive.And k-pop <3<br />Ok, not a good message to kids.Go out and make friends!<br />As a conclusion, what made baby Alexandra lie was trying to fit in and get away from her parents with their unrealistic academic vision.<br />Now I 'm fine and not lie as much.Now I don't hide.I steal the cookie :))<br /><br />Hope you enjoyed my post :)<br /><br /><br />Tah-tah :)<br /><br />Alexandra <3Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0Timișoara, România45.7488716 21.20867929999997245.571563600000005 20.885955799999973 45.9261796 21.53140279999997tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-73465483412045596722016-07-02T21:11:00.000+03:002016-07-02T21:11:19.583+03:00STUDY, STUDY &STUDY <img alt="Imagine books, desk, and stack of books" height="400" src="http://data.whicdn.com/images/228938106/large.jpg" width="264" /><br />
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So...Exam season is around the corner...More precisely on Monday...Yay...<br />
To tell you the truth, I'm freaking out and I'm so worried that something might come up and I'm screwed for life.<br />I hate the fact that I wasn't educated to cope with a bad situation like that(I mean screwing up).All I know is to blame myself if I screw up.Which is not a good mentality.It's a very negative and distructive mentality to me.How can you tell your child if he fails something(no mather how important) they are that it's their fault.#parentinggoals<br />But I don't blame the parents, but a few parenting books might help.Which is why I thought a nonparent could give 100 better advice on educating a child rather than a parent.I feel a better educater in parenting than my own parents.Like hello!?<br />Ok, so I've already started to go into other subjects so I'm turning back to my initial thought.<br />
So,exams...Nobody escapes them...Unless you're a filthy filthy cheater..<br />First, CALM DOWN,<br />It's something you'll have to face many times in your life, not just in Highschool, Colledge etc.<br />You'll always have to face a "showdown" sometime in your life , so be prepared and don't freak out.<br />If the people around you freak you out, take a break.Travel if you can for the weekend.Go to the pool and go for a swim.Go for a massage.Go to your local favourite shop and buy yourself a treat.<br />If the internet keeps you nervous or unmotivated, take a internet detox.You won't die.You'll be fine.The phone will be right there after the exams.<br />
Go for a walk.Being an indoor, couch potato won't help you, so get off your butt and go for a walk, jog ,take a buddy(who might be in the same situation).You can become someone's counselour without noticing and vice versa.<br />Try something new.A new coffee shop.A new museum.Something to stimulate your brain.<br />Don't be afraid to ask for help.Ask a teacher, friend or parent.Ask questions without being afraid.I even dare you right now!<br />Write about it.Writing about it right now makes me feel a little better.You try to!<br /><br />Also, don't freak out!You'll do great!<br />Spread some good vibes when you take exams :)<br /><br /><br />Hugs and kisses :)<br /><br /><br />Alexandra <3<br />
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Motivational song:Jessica:Fly(The english version)Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-24998350426552325802016-07-01T20:57:00.000+03:002016-07-01T20:57:00.761+03:00A message to young girls <img alt="Imagine art, disney, and drawing" src="http://data.whicdn.com/images/247424487/large.png" /><br />
When I was a young girl, I dreamed of becoming a princess and rule a kingdom.<br />Girls nowadays inherit "daddy's" empire with a flick of the eye.<br /><br />When I was young, I pretended lollipops were cigarettes for fun.<br />Girls nowadays smoke like the were born with this capacity.<br /><br />When I was young, I would choose to play outside and run a whole park with my friends.<br />Girls nowadays chat on Facebook, Twitter and other Social Media platforms and "check-in" to seem cool.And they hunt likes for their selfies.<br /><br />When I was young, girls and boys didn't want to kiss each other's cheek.<br />Girls nowadays jump from a relationship to another.<br />
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Whe I was young, I would get things when I deserved them.<br />Girls nowadays get everything.<br /><br />I'm not trying to denigrate girls in this post or make somebody angry.NOT ALL THE GIRLS ARE THE SAME.I'm just noticing how generations have changed, but at the same time I don't like what I see.I'm actually scared for my sister not to fall into any of the previous death traps.And I'm calling them like this not necessarily because they kill you in real life, but they drag you into a spiral that's hard to exit.Girls have also become more poisonous.They backstab each other.That's sad.Also I didn't notice this happening 10 years ago.Maybe this is just a teen thing.When puberty hits, girls hate each other.I actually have trust issues because of that.Girls can be mean.<br />
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My conclusion :Girls, don't cater to any of what people around you do.Cater yourself.<br />I don't smoke and I have friends who smoke but that doesn't make me want to try to be cool by doing the same.Be your own cool :)<br />AND build girl-to-girl relationships by trusting eachother.Be nice every time. :)<br />
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With love from your Unnie :)<br /><br />AlexandraAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0Timișoara, România45.7488716 21.20867929999997245.571563600000005 20.885955799999973 45.9261796 21.53140279999997tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-14705646449866948842016-06-06T22:02:00.000+03:002016-06-06T22:02:11.616+03:00What dissapointed me lately <img alt="Imagine alone, black, and blackandwhite" src="http://data.whicdn.com/images/238499869/large.jpg" /><br />
So today's post is not going to be a sad post, but more like a brainstorming one.<br />So I'm aproaching exam season and,of course, I wanted to get some extra tutoring to complement my knowledge.And so I went back to my old Romanian teacher, but I wasn't the only one.One of the ones who wanted tutoring was one of my ex-classmates.And I thought if we were no longer classmates, we could talk as equals, but turnes out it waSn't the case.He is,to this day sort of bullying me because I'm a hungry thinker(when my brain is in a state of intense activity, I need a snack.I guess it's a way of my brain of telling me to recharge or reward myself for the work).But he keeps nagging me for wanting snacks.I see nothing wrong with snacking when studying but I guess some people have such a well developped brain, theirs can function non stop.And also,I've noticed that he also bullies me for the person that I was, an introvert not engaging in conversation, so he would, like, encourage the others to talk to me as well and include me in their conversation.But I guess he never thought that I speak my mind only when I have something to say but again.I guess I might be so introverted that I could crawl under a rock any second.<br />The thing that pisses me off isn't his immaturity, but his superior act that makes the others act the same way.Of course the ones who know me shut up, but the others just follow.Again, the choice of following the one who starts the noise just to be cool is stronger than a proper sense of humanity.<br />I'm not writing this post to make him feel any worse cause he won't.And this is not the purpose of this post.I want to conclude this by saying that speaking mean things and acting superior won't bring around you people you can trust and keep close.<br />I'm actualy dissapointed, so I wrote today to kind of take something off my soul.<br />I hope you keep the right people around and that you surround yourself with people who make you feel special in a good way and who lift you with the purpose of making you a better person.<br /><br />Have an awsome day and good luck if you have any exams coming up and you feel like the world is a sad place.I'll cover that some other day :3<br /><br />As Michelle Phan always says :)<br /><br /><br />Good luck,<br /><br />AlexandraAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0Timișoara, România45.7488716 21.20867929999997245.571563600000005 20.885955799999973 45.9261796 21.53140279999997tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-78821757840917489542016-03-30T19:06:00.000+03:002016-03-30T19:06:00.604+03:00I have the best friends ever!<img height="413" src="http://i.huffpost.com/gen/813511/images/o-FRIENDSHIP-facebook.jpg" width="640" /><br />
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I cannot express how awsome my friends are :3<br />
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Story time ;)<br /><br />So today I got the worst neck pain in the history of neck pains ,so bad that I couldn't look to my left or up.It was horrible :(<br />
And so my friends decided to go to a supermarket and buy some goodies.I wanted bananans.I got bananas.You have no ideea how much that meant to me :))<br />Also,after joking in the bus about how I would arrive at home with my neck,my friends decided to take me home.We walked but it was still better than walking by myself with my neck in that weird position.And after arriving home I literally cried of pain,so my friends made sure to cheer me up :3<br /><br />Today made me realise how special little things can be.Food,friends and laughter can heal more than money or medecine.<br />
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Please please plase appreciate your friends because true friends will never stab your back and will take care genuinely of you.And they deserve your time,attention and even money if needed.Money comes and goes but true friends stick with you.Give them some appreciation and love ;)<br />
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Hope we can all do that :)<br />
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Have the best day ever :3 :)<br /><br /><br />With love,<br />
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AlexandraAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-60850349031681054352016-03-29T16:58:00.001+03:002016-03-29T16:58:48.615+03:00How many times people have told me to change <img src="http://rharrisblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/confusing-tech-language.jpg" /><br />
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Too many times.<br />
I think I reached Infinite.......<br />
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Not this Infinite though :))<br />
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Since Middle School I was told to change to fit in.<br />I was told I should shave my body hair (not head though :)) ) ,to dress prettily ,trendy, to hang out with the cool kids etc.I realised I hated what people doing these things were ,so I just hanged out with people I liked and enjoyed spending my time with.Time is precious so don't spend with people you don't like.<br />
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Later in high school,the people who were telling me what to do came back.<br />
This time the people have changed,the topiks have changed yet I didn't change too much.<br />
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"You should wear makeup".<br />"You should wear girly clothes"<br />
"You should fix your eyebrows"<br />"You should straighten your hair"<br />
"You should wear heels more often" (I guess You've read a while ago about my opinion on some torture...I mean girly stuff).<br />
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So why do people tell people to change either :have too much time<br />have low self-esteem that they feel like they should change me for not being like them<br />
or it just was imprinted in them due to societys demanding manner<br />or all of them....<br />
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I opened today discussion because I kind of reached a point in my life where I wish people liked me for being a tomboy,noisy,loud,immature,crazy etc.<br />Sometimes I ask myself if people realise they don't do anything by telling me to change,they just make me not want to change at all because I attract their attention.1 :0 for me :P :))<br />
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So to conclude todays subject ,I would like to tell you to just keep your mouth shut in these situation and instead say "You are one ..............(insert what you would like to change like crazy,tomboy) mofo.I love you <3<br />
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Positivity is the key.Ya a** holes :))<br />
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Babye<br /><br />Oh and feel free to tweet me,instagram me ,facebook me if you would like me to comment on something.Do it.I know you want it :))<br /><br /><br />Yours ;)<br />Alexandra<br />
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So today I'm going to talk to you about how I became an introvert and how being one basically ruined some of the best moments of my life:<br />
So I think I started growing introvert in Middle School when I was bullied a lot and I felt sad for maybe 3 years straight and I just wanted to be alone and I lost my hope in making friends and talking,even going to school lost its charms.I think I was just fine with school,I didn't hate it,but I started to when I was in Middle School, when getting to school was depressing not because of my grades but because of the people I had to spend time with.Sometimes I'm happy God took out all the toxic people from my life from me when I went to High School.And these days I start to believe in karma because I hear some crazy stories of what happened to some of them.<br />
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Later in life,even in high school my introvertness (making up words today :D ) followed me but it wasn't so bad.I still have a handfull of close friends,sometimes I wish I had more but I just can't handle big crowds :3<br />
So making friends is hard,but I'm thankful for the people that stuck by :*<br /><br />This year my introvert side was in bloom because of exam stress and even Driving School didn't help.<br />Because of being shy and scared,I failed my driving exam twice :O<br />I'm so thankful I still passed on my third try even though I feel like it was still pushed but anyhow,I'm a driver now :3<br />Even my dad admited to being a good one.And he's very picky :O<br /><br /><br />I forgot to say that being the introvert I am,I can hardly stand for my friends and even with my own decisions.I even experience trust issues :3...Little miss crazy me :))<br /><br /><br />So that's all for today.A belated Happy Easter!<br /><br /><br />Lots of love and all of you,be brave!You're worth it :)<br /><br /><br />AlexandraAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-9304126791445952222016-02-09T13:29:00.002+02:002016-02-09T13:29:50.174+02:002016:Did this year start bad for me? <img alt="Imagine city, sky, and building" height="400" src="http://data.whicdn.com/images/207878273/large.jpg" width="266" /><br />
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Hi everybody and welcome to a new year!<br />For my first post of the year,I would like to talk about what seems to be a bad start of this year and how I felt.<br /><br />So,this year started with 2 disappointments for me,which I'm not going to name.<br />Those things were two challendges which I failed.On my first attempt,I failed.On my second,the result was the same.School didn't help me as much as cheer me because I'm in senior year,so EVERYBODY puts pressure on us to STUDY again and again.Which s***s because this makes me hate school even more.<br />
On a brighther note,I passed my French Exam.:)<br />Feeling proud because I didn't have a lot of help,it was just me and a preparation book.<br />So,having more letdowns than wins,I felt sad.To the point in which I doubted myself in everything I did,even in stuff in which I exceled.<br />What helped me get out of this void are my friends and my music.<br />If it wasn't for my dear friends(I'm going to put only the initials :M,G,F,L,D,I) I would probably be still stuck in my vortex of sadness.<br />Also,I started playing the guitar and I've been playing it since last June(or July) and,even though the progress is small,I feel very accomplished and thankfull for making the effort to really get out of my comfort zone and just do it.I've been longing to play the guitar for maybe 2 years,and when my dad told me he found a teacher,I was more than excited.I might never be like those guitar players that can play with their eyes closed,but I feel more than rejuvenated.I feel free :)<br />So to conclude everything,for me finding small things that make me happy encourage me to move on,to grow and to actually live my life the right way :)<br /><br /><br />I'll try to be active and post,but sometimes finding ideas is hard.The inspirational fairies are on holiday :P<br /><br />So,if you have a subject you would like I talk about,feel free to post on my twitter acount,which I will link bellow,or maybe put it somewhere on my blog :D.To find your suggestions,use the hashtag #arpost<br /><br />Goodbye,and <span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 13px;">À bientôt! :)</span></span><br /><br />Alexandra :)<br /><br /><span style="color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 13px;">https://twitter.com/?lang=ro&lang=ro</span></span></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0Timișoara, România45.7488716 21.20867929999997245.571563600000005 20.885955799999973 45.9261796 21.53140279999997tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-59281281150209675492015-12-07T21:26:00.003+02:002015-12-07T21:26:49.421+02:00What's wrong with my curly hair? <img alt="Imagine drawing, art, and black and white" src="http://data.whicdn.com/images/212395562/large.jpg" /><br />
Another random wtf topic.<br />
So,what is with curly hair?<br />I had it since day 1(true fact) and I loved it.No staightener has ever touched my hair and I'm super proud of that.Still, people ask me why not?Because I like to have hair on my head and not hay.<br />And I wouldn't invest in an "iron for my hair".That shit was meant for clothes :)<br />But then I'm not considered a girl because I'm not burning my hair.Being a girl means burning your hair and painting your face.Call me tomorrow and tell me to cry cause right now I'm just getting ready for bed :)<br />
Or another question is if I curl it.You've known me for 4 years and you ask me if I curl it.Wow...<br />
I understand if you don't know me but if you do...wow....<br />
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Or another.If I use any products for curly hair.I had no idea these things existed.<br />Or they give me tips on how to make it more curly or more straight,what products should I use,what straightener should I use.And I answer the same:Good talk,are you done now :))<br />
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On a serious note.Why do people want to change us.Why can't they accept the way we are.I know it's hard but just shut up.<br />
I'm going to tell you this.Please accept me and don't change me.Talk to me about something else.<br /><br />But if you try to reccomend me stuff,go to a psychologist because you piss me off.<br />
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So that's it for tonight,have an awsome week ;)<br /><br /><br />Toodles :)<br /><br />AlexandraAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-40094806238431075462015-12-05T11:46:00.002+02:002015-12-05T11:46:39.877+02:00How makeup works(tips from a girl who doesn't use makeup) <img alt="Imagine makeup, pink, and make up" src="http://data.whicdn.com/images/211955238/large.jpg" /><br />
In the 18 years that I've lived on this planet,I've used makeup for a little while in 8th grade(some lip products and mascara),after that I didn't care anymore about it,so I didn't invest in it.<br />And oh how smart I am/was.I mean, hundreds of dollars spent on makeup?No thanks.<br />And also I've noticed there is not one instruction manual.There are so many ways to apply makeup,which means you have to own a great amount of products.Again , no thanks.Who has so much space and money for something like that.I know what you're going to say,girls do.Well guess what.I'm a girl who owns more than a hundred books or her shelves,more than a 100 on kindle and has read more than, let's say ,300 in her life.Yup.Was that an investement.Yes it was.Was it smarter than makeup.1000% Yep.<br />Now now girls,don't take this post as an attack against you,you can obviously own books and makeup at the same time,but I chose books over makeup and I'm happy I don't have a hole in my pocket :D<br /><br />Again don't get angry,I respect every single girl who has the ability to apply makeup.My hands tremble like an old persons hands so I gave up,plus when you have little to no money , you gotta make priorities ;)<br /><br />Have an awsome weekend and don't get mad,this post was supposed to make you laugh or relate, dahhh!<br /><br /><br />AlexandraAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-58891974896631267392015-12-03T22:03:00.003+02:002015-12-03T22:03:50.299+02:00Age doesn't matter! <img alt="Imagine beauty, text, and ‘beauty has no age" src="http://data.whicdn.com/images/211680160/large.jpg" /><br />
So,this post is kind of random,but it kept bugging me lately, so I had to take this weight of my sholders.<br />Last week on Friday I was at Romanian tutoring with 2 others guys and when the teacher left the room for 2 minutes or so,they started making sexual comments and looking to sexual photos with jokes about sex and "a language" I was kind of familiar because I still enter the world,and they were like you're too young,you're just 17(18 tomorow) and you don't know this stuff you're too young and bulls**t like that.<br />Let me tell you that your age has nothing to do with knowing sexual language.Obviously since we live in the 21st century we are exposed to things like that so I wasn't unfamiliar with their jokes.But the fact that they laughed in my face for being too young and not knowing their crap pissed me.<br />I know they won't read this but I feel dissapointement with their treatment towards me,and I would like to say that being a girl or being a year younger than them doesn't make me incult and ignorant with all the crap that "mature people "know.<br />I f you're a guy or a girl and you do this,I'm sorry to break this to you,but this doesn't make supperior,it makes you look like a lonely perv.I've said it.Now everbody go to sleep and forget about "those persons".They're not worth wasting your energy on them.Secretly they wish to have this attention because of their insecurities.<br /><br />
Good night/day :)!<br /><br /><br />AlexandraAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-85700451192112401532015-12-01T12:38:00.000+02:002015-12-01T12:38:03.885+02:00New winter look,Romania's national day and a little update :) <img alt="Imagine december, winter, and welcome" height="427" src="http://data.whicdn.com/images/211356475/large.jpg" width="640" /><br />
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Hi guys!<br />So DECEMBER is here!I can't believe how fast time flies :)<br />But this year was awsome.I partcipated in so many projects,I had an awsome summer,school is a pain in the butt but when wasn't it ?: )))<br />
But the most exciting thing for me was(and is) driving school :O<br />I can't explain how amasing the feeling of being behind the weel and driving is. AWSOME!!!<br /><br />So today,the 1st of December, is Romanias National Day.I would like to express my gratitude for this country which is amasing and worth living in.No country is perfect,so I appreciate you ;)<br />Plus,you host my friends and family,myself,some awsome cities and touristic places and some awsome views worth photographing :)<br /><br />Next week is my birhtday .Getting old :)) Jk. I already got more presents than expected and some awsome friends by my side.What could I ever wish for?<br />
<br />Have an awsome day( I know I've used this word way too much)<br /><br />Alexandra :)Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0Timișoara, România45.7488716 21.20867929999997245.571563600000005 20.885955799999973 45.9261796 21.53140279999997tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-17898218235420572312015-11-29T14:56:00.001+02:002015-11-29T14:56:10.770+02:00My token of appreciation to my friends :)<img height="360" src="http://vignette2.wikia.nocookie.net/the-frollo-show/images/b/bc/Lumiere_and_Cogsworth.png/revision/latest?cb=20140908214153" width="640" /><br />
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Dear friends,<br />I can't express my gratitude for every second you're next to me,even when we can't meet ,the modern "blessing of Facebook" allows us to keep in touch even though we're not going to the same school,living in the same town or country,I love every single one of you.<br />That goes to you too , my lovely community who gives maybe 10 minutes of their life to read my thoughts.Thank you for that :)<br />Hope I'm accomplishing my goal to make you smile :)<br />
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I think I might have written something like this a while,but as I was scroling through my Facebook feed and seeing pictures of the smiling people,and there was I also smiling :)<br />To my friend who's struggling with exams,take it easy.And I told you to manage better your time.Do as I did.Get yourself A God bless Agenda and write down what you have to do :)) lol<br />And sleep.I don't want to know you guys still up when the clock switches to a.m.<br />Not good for you!<br /><br />To all my friends :)<br />Thank you!Merci!Gracias!Vielen Dank!Xie xie!Gamsahabnida!Arigato!<br /><br />
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First open this link :<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nMXNPGxX4Uw<br />
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Ahh that's a lot better :)<br />
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So guys,when different reasons makes us sad,it's our turn to step down and relax.<br />
Nowadays we are to busy to rest for a couple of minutes because we are always running.And running.Did I mention running?<br />
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For various reasons,our mood goes down sometimes,but we can easily boost it of we try.<br />
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Here are some tips that hopefuly might help.I know there are a lot of posts like these but whatever,I know only my friends read them :)) Joie I'm looking at you :)<br />
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If I did another post similar,no worries,reminding you to slow down more often is better ;)<br />
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1)EAT<br />
Simple.Indulge on something you love.I like to eat EVERYTHING when I'm sad but I guess I balance it with exercise.Right?<br />
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Really now,food is a great stimulater,so eat in moderation something that you like to make you feel special :)<br />
Joie,easy in the coffee :))<br />
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2)Read<br />
I'll tell ya a thing.I'm obsessed with books.If books make me happy,so will you be if you read.And you'll be smarter.Win-win situation here.Your welcome ;)<br />
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3)Watch funny stuff.<br />
Cats videos.Fail videos.Vines.Youtubers.Wacth'em ;)<br />
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4)Go for a walk<br />
If you're lazy like me and hate exercising,it can't get lazier that this :D<br />
Take walks and appreciate your town,village,street,ice-cream shop.....Yeah,I'm always thinking about food :)<br />
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5)Baths<br />
Relaxing :)<br />
Pair it with snacking and a movie or a book.Heaven.<br />
To all my Bath&Body works people out there,you are lucky.We don't have them in Romania(or at least I don't know.But if we have them,they're expensive, I guarantee you)<br />
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I guess you got it.I think you've read at least 20 posts this week on how to destress.Sorry.Nothing new maybe.:(<br />
At least I tried.But then again,only my friends read my blog lol.Joie I blame you for the lol :P<br />
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Last but not least ;)<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ<br />
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Good night!<br />
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ILY,<br />
AlexandraAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0Timișoara, România45.7488716 21.20867929999997245.571563600000005 20.885955799999973 45.9261796 21.53140279999997tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-91529536414250066922015-11-23T20:37:00.000+02:002015-11-23T20:37:02.193+02:00100th post :) A post about numbers :) <img alt="Imagine watch, Late, and time" src="http://data.whicdn.com/images/209987216/large.jpg" /><br />
So ....I'm writing my 100th post...I can't believe it.Along the way , I was about to give up so many times for many reasons:Fright,shame,discourage,sadness....But look at me tiping today :)<br />I'm so proud of myself and this little corner I dedicate my time,and I'm thankful for all the people reading this and my other posts :)<br /><br />Today's post is going to be about numbers people run from or towards...<br />
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1)Height<br />
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A set of numbers that label you.You're short,you must be cute.You're tall,you must be tough.<br />I'm 1,71(in metres) and I'm somewhat anti-social,I tremble when having to do a speech,never wanting to ask questions.I love a good book.I'm not a good leader but I don't mind organising thinks here and there.I hate not speaking my toughts but I'm afraid I might hurt people's feelings.<br />
Was my height relevant.No :P<br /><br />2)Weight<br />
I see you girl(or guy) cringing.<br />
Weight used to be important,more like a stigma to me.The skinnier you were,the popular you were.The skinnier you were,the more complimented you were.False.<br />The skinnier I was,the more miserable I felt.The more skinnier I was,the less food I would eat.And I love to eat.<br />Nothing's wrong about diversity.Nothing's wrong about having curves.Nothing's wrong with not having them.Nothing wrong with not having muscle.You'll survive.I did ;)<br /><br /><br />3)Time<br />We all complain we don't have time.<br />We all complain we have too much time.<br />We all waist time.<br />We all spend time.<br />Time is a gift.Live the present.That's why it's called present :)<br /><br /><br /><br />
Thank you for sticking around.I appreciate every single one of you,every comment,every share(if not I don't mind).As long as I've put a smile on your face,my job is done :3 :) <br /><br /><br />Sweet dreams(Or Good morning )<br /><br /><br />Alexandra :)Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0Timișoara, România45.7488716 21.20867929999997245.571563600000005 20.885955799999973 45.9261796 21.53140279999997tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-57856017180810845462015-11-15T16:31:00.001+02:002015-11-15T16:31:17.571+02:00Reading:My way of running from stress :) <img alt="Imagine book, vintage, and read" src="http://data.whicdn.com/images/208794178/large.jpg" /><br />
When stress kicks in ,this is one of my best ways of escaping it.<br />
Add some music on the background and Voila!Best combo ever :)<br />If you're facing difficult times,if you're stressed or just having a bad day,reading is an awsome way to make a better turn ;)<br />I forgot to mention it helps you falls asleep easier :O<br />Yes!If you have trouble sleeping,this is a great solution to enter Dreamland faster.<br />The problem nowadays is that we're reading less.For various reasons people are reading less.Maybe it's a little pricy.Maybe we don't have enough time.You see what I did there.I made excuses.Not good :P.<br />
I'm a legit bookworm and thanks to Kindle,I can read a lot more books and not worry about storage space :)<br />Altough I love me some harcover books ;) Not a hater guys ;)<br /><br />As for background music,Youtube is full of them I was shocked.I know,I'm an old school gal but what can I do :P<br />Reccomended channels :Spiritual Moment (they have a huge range of background music) and even anime music can be so soothing ;)<br />Even when I study nowadays I need some background music .And it's pretty relaxing.The slower,the better ;)<br /><br /><br />Have an awsome Sunday and start your Monday with a smile :) :D<br /><br /><br />Alexandra<br /><br /><br /> <img alt="Imagine harry styles, one direction, and harry" src="http://data.whicdn.com/images/208794370/large.jpg" />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com0Timișoara, România45.7488716 21.20867929999997245.571563600000005 20.885955799999973 45.9261796 21.53140279999997tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6059854235436726204.post-39072695887585701672015-10-21T20:14:00.000+03:002015-10-21T20:14:00.784+03:00The stress of being a senior(in anything) :)Hi guys <3<br />
So I guess a lot of you really can understand how stressful senior year in High School,Colledge can be and if keeping good grades and stacking up diplomas is not stressful enough,the teachers and parents who are supposed to help and coordinate and encourage us do the opposite.They keep shoving in your face that we have to study like maniacs and give up any extracurricular activity and just study.<br /> Let me ask you a question.Do you think this is right?Am I supposed to feel like my stomach is going to come out because of stress,and with that to give up the activities that actualy help me relax and happy?Are you crazy?Has your medication expired?Kidding :D<br />I like playing my guitar,even though I'm a begginer but with practice comes progress.Should I just abandon that and just study?<br />
Seriously,how much can a person study?Isn't my brain fried enough,I have to also keep it in the oven?No sir,you can eff off I'm going to do my thing,practice my guitar,listen to my music,read my books and when I need a break I'll take it.<br />
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End of the story :P<br /><br />
Am I the only one pissed here? :)))<br />
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Good night guys and don't stress over stuff like this.Do what you feel helps you.<br /><br />Quickie :Listen to music while studying.I usualy search for a playlist on Youtube,but not dance music,a mix of clasic or instrumental.That helps me a lot and actually it makes studying fun ;)<br />
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Love y'all :)<br /><br />Alexandra<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07558646319028229766noreply@blogger.com1Timișoara, România45.7488716 21.20867929999997245.571563600000005 20.885955799999973 45.9261796 21.53140279999997